Married People...

Does being married really change things? I think in fact it does...

Married people... do LOT more laundry than unmarried people... I think it's the idea that you are now supposed to be a domestic goddess and channel your inner June Cleaver...

Married People... Make Jams and Jelly and dig potatoes when it is 100+ degrees outside... and bake pies... Oh yeah Betty Crocker... I'm coming for ya!

As a result... Married People SWEAT A LOT! Could just be a coincidence that it's been 100,000 degrees since the wedding... but I blame it on being married! :)p

Married People... Take a house that was once for one... and make it a home for 2... I've lived here for 7 years so we are enjoying making it our home together!

Married People... don't go to bars ... instead they spend the time spoiling their nieces and nephews with to much sugar and carnival fish... You are welcome Jason and Megan!

And... when married people go on dates... sometimes their moms tag along... and it's really OK!

Married life is just what we hoped for... A BOLD adventure of making 2 lives into one, planning for a future, and learning to sign a new last name!

Stay Tune for adventures from our Honeymoon... We leave in 32 hours...

Much Love!

The ROLANDS

Well in the past 2 weeks we welcomed almost 400 visitors to the home farm, put several hundred bales of hay up, and oh yeah... WE GOT MARRIED!!!!

When people ask about the day all I can say is that every vision I had in my mind was surpassed! Down to the last detail it was exactly what Nate and I had hoped and worked for!

They say that the day flies by and boy does it! A friend from school Tina reminded me all along to make sure to take moments to take it all in and capture the memories... Great advice Tina! Some things that will stick with me forever:

*  Just how handsome Nate looked when I first saw him :)
* Walking hand and hand through the corn field misty eyed with my equally as misty eyed Dad.
* The Snake that chased the bridal party through the field.
* How GORGEOUS all the girls were, but especially my sisters Kim & Kelly!
* Catching fireflies with best friend Robin's 3 year old Mallory <3
* Having my best friend Jen give the same wish I gave at her wedding a few years back.
* The sweet sound of the bluegrass band playing I'll Fly Away for our lost loved ones as it echoed through the valley.
* The Indigo Bunting ( Grandma Vaughan's Favorite Bird) that perched on the tree just beyond the preacher and stayed until the moment my Dad gave me away.
* Having Alex play the Chicken Dance for our cousin Joey who danced the night away!
* Aunt Marla breaking her foot dancing the apron dance with Nate
And...

All the wishes that were sent just for us :) Oh and the fact that they landed in a cow pasture the next farm over... Sorry Rutledge Brick House Farm We <3 You!

Today the last of the wedding gifts got put away, and as I did my tidying of the house I also noticed that the flowers had begun to fade. What is a bride to do when her flowers begin to wilt... You find someone who would love them, who you love and who you know who loves you and your new husband more than words  !

Much Love,

Construction Ahead!

This Sign hangs on the door of our Spare Room... Now Wedding HQ. Right now every flat surface including some floors in our 1897 farm house are engulfed in full wedding construction.

I've been collecting items for 6 months to give the perfect touch to our big day, so now it's time to organize all those yard sale, and goodwill boxes in preparation for the big day. The only "new" item I bought for the wedding that did not come from either consignment, Goodwill, or a Yard Sale, is the Cake Plate Nate & I will put our wedding cake on. Doing this has helped to keep the cost down, and you'll see on the 30th, that it all comes together to make our dream day come true!

When at David's Bridal my girls saw headpieces and tried a few on. We all had sticker shock and the $50 tag on each one. So we opted for an afternoon of wine an DIY and made our own from supplies I found at Joanne's. Everyone is embracing the vintage style, right down to the hairstyles.

Everyone is being SUPER helpful, which makes me a very unstressed Bride... For now anyway... Even my beloved Shams came to help. He was really good at throwing, um.... organizing some of our craft materials. <3

Even Nate is doing his part to ensure that everything is perfect for our BIG day. We made sure his part including heavy equipment operation and he was one happy guy! We have been adding 3 loads of stone to the driveway to ensure our guests don't have to re enact a scene from Dukes of Hazard in order to make it to the reception. Although, a Dixie Horn would be encouraged ;)

As we make our final preparations and the countdown gets to 9, we are reminded of all the amazing people here and resting on high who have worked hard right beside us to ensure our journey on the Road to Roland is one of memories, good friends, and good wine.

Until Next Time,

Future Mrs. Amy Vaughan- Roland

Romeo and The Juliet Cap

Here is my Grandmother Mary Elizabeth Rittenhouse Vaughan and her "Romeo" Charles Hadley Vaughan on their wedding day in 1954! She is wearing the Juliet Cap I will wear on my wedding day!

Here is a picture of the Juliet cap ! This cap is from the Rittenhouse-Byrne side of our family ( Grandma Vaughan's Family) and has been worn by brides in our family for 127 YEARS!
This style of cap gets its name from Romeo and Juliet when pictures of the ever lovely Juliet were shown she wore a cap of this style.

After the I do's the bride signs her new name for the first time and puts her wedding date on the card in the box and adds a picture of her big day and then hand the box back to the "Box Keeper" currently my sister Kim!

For now I am settled in with my Romeo getting ready for the big day!
The "Hat" remains safe in the box with "the keeper" until then!
June 18th will be my first chance to wear it with the hairstylist for a practice run!

So excited for the amazing traditions that will come with our big day some 127 years old!
We also look forward to our own Road to Roland traditions in the days, months, and years to come!

See you soon!
Almost Mrs. Amy Vaughan-Roland!!!!!!

:)

Fishing poles welcome... Shoes always optional!

Some locals call it Wright's Lake, Bradenbaugh Bay, or even "The Pond," Whatever you call it we are blessed to get to call it home!

Wright's Lake as it is known to the locals is located here on the Wright Farm, the 130 acre farm where Nate & I live. Here is a little history lesson on the pond:

On November 7, 1957 a group of Highway Administration Engineers met to discuss plans to build "Site 2A" now known as Wright's Lake. The plan was to build a pond as a Federal Flood Control Pond to prevent Little Deer Creek from overflowing its banks and destroying crop ground throughout Harford County.

On October 12, 1961 they began building the flood wall. The little boy in the picture is likely my dad who remembers seeing the "men and the machines," that day.

In October 1962 after a series of rainstorms the pond began to fill...

 Fast forward 50 years and it will be the spot where Nate & I say our I do's... ( This is the view from our wedding site!)

This is where I caught my 1st fish, and spent endless Sunday afternoons cooking hot dogs on our family "vacation" days. With the commitment a dairy farm brings there were not a lot of opportunities to go away on vacation so we made vacation days to the pond.

There is no place on earth where you feel closer to heaven then watching the sunrise over that hillside curled up in a duck blind with your dad or your two best guy friends ( Nick & Brian).

 Grandpa Vaughan was famous for his schematic drawings for picnics and events... I guess a little rubbed off.... This is the current artist rendition of the ceremony cite.

Every time I walk this field I find a 4 leaf clover... A tradition passed down from Grandpa Waite Vaughan.. They say he could find them as he was walking without looking and it is a trait my sisters and I have inherited....

 

 Whenever I go to the pond I just can't help myself to play in the water.... Question is will they be able to keep me out of it in a WHITE DRESS! UH OH!

Here on the flat is where the tent for the reception will be set up... It's 150 steps from the water....

Here on the Road to Roland fishing poles are always welcome... and shoes are just optional!

Get excited it's going to be a great day!

Love,
Amy & Nate

sticky, round, green, lumpy, ugly ( hey now!), and stumpy...

Today I was told I had to be a good Aunt and head to nephew Greg’s baseball game… ON A SUNDAY!?! I thought… I had told Nate I had way to much to do and I wasn’t going to make it… With stern eyes that said “Please don’t make me ruin this!” I headed out to an amazing shower surrounded by our family and friends.  Nate gave the whole event a "thumbs up!" We had to borrow the farm truck and filled it with all the gifts! WOW! How blessed are we?!?!

Beneath the shade tree on the front porch where my sisters and I performed skits for after milking dinner theater for our mom and dad, my childhood dreams fast forward seated as the bride to be surrounded by so much love. It was truly surreal!

 

The outpouring of love and the variety of gifts from the smallest gift to the biggest showed the love and attention to detail of everyone to capture just one snapshot of something in our life! Grandma Vaughan was famous for giving gifts of “drawer junk”, so in Vaughan fashion my mom passed the torch by presenting me with 2 large bags of stuff from my old room…  I’ve been moved out for 6 years! So you know it was true treasure!

 Gifts were so unique and we were overwhelemed by the outpporing of love. This trunk was a wedding survival kit prepared by my beloved Aunt Em... In it was duct tape, bacon bandaids, a dime, a pink golf ball and a bottle of Champagne just in case... The coolest part is this chest was actually delivered to her childhood home in New York as a gift to her father congressman Conable as a gift gtom the people of Turkey.. What an amazing story!

 No shower is complete without those silly shower games... Apparently Mad Libs are back in style.. You are welcome folks for being reminded what an adverb, noun, and adjective are! According to our shower guests Nate and I are sticky, round, green, lumpy, ugly ( hey now!), and stumpy... We will live amazingly, blessed, slowly, briskly, ever after.

Mom, Kimberly, and Kelly gave us 6 new chairs to replace those lost in last years Hurricane... Look at that view.. if that does not say happily ever after I don't know what does!

Words can not express how truly thankful Nate and I are to have each and every one of you join in our journey... and I have to admint I had my first wedding break down when Jen Wilson presented the dessert table with black bottom cupcakes ( Miss Wrights recipe she and I would make in the kitchen together), and the hot bittersweet sauce my Grandma and I would make together on Sunday nights...  but I had passed those recipes with thier stories on to Jen on her wedding day a few years back...

Not having them here with me in person has caused an ache in my heart... But little things that remind me of the love I have shared with them and the memories I have keep them alive and with me everyday... It seemed silly to break down and cry over something so obscure,and they are something that evoke such happy memories of times with both of them!
(I'm not even able to make it through just putting the words down without tears coming! ) It was a finishing touch on a perfect day!

People ask what I am most looking forward to on our wedding day... I say I can't wait to have all the people in my life that I care most about in one place at one time!

We truly are blessed to have each and every one of you on our journey as we travel our Road to Roland!

Love,
Stumpy, Lumpy, and Sticky....

AMY & NATE